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Written by Dorree Lynn, PhD
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Monday, 11 January 2010 16:16 |
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 Dear Dr. Dorree,
I’m 58 and I’m with the best guy I’ve ever known. I had a long, dry, 22 year marriage and I’m now with a man who’s a bit younger and very sexual. He’s 48 and a stud in bed, which makes me a bit shy, but I’m going with the fun. I also really like him. He really wants to please me in so many ways, especially in bed, which he does. But he keeps fishing for my G-spot. He can fish all he wants, but I don’t think there’s anything to catch. I’m orgasmic and I don’t see the problem. What can I tell him to help him stop working so hard and assure him that I really am pleased? -Mary S.
Dear Mary,
Humbug and here’s the truth. Lately there’s been quite a bit of controversy about whether or not there is a magic female sex button called the G-spot. For years it was considered a part of the female anatomy, that once found, sent women to the moon. Interestingly, it was discovered by a male gynecologist Ernst Greenberg and he got to have the entire idea named after him. Thus, we have the G-Spot. The G-Spot, was used to describe the bean-shaped area of the vagina that many women report when stimulated can lead to high levels of sexual arousals, and powerful orgasms and can lead to squirting of tons of sexual fluids. According to the latest researchers, and contrary to what most of us have been taught, the G-spot isn’t really a specific “spot” at all. Rather than being a small bull’s eye that must be precisely hit, (sort of like thinking about bull’s eye and target practice). Consider it a “groove tube,” a spongy network of erectile tissue that lies between the urethra and the front wall of the vaginal canal. Without arousal, it’s hard to feel. With arousal, there’s no doubt about its succulence. Forget the debate about whether or not it exists. Play with it yourself or teach your partner how to play you well. Tell your wonderful lover to stop fishing and just enjoy yourselves. You sound like a lucky woman to me.
Dr. Dorree
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